{"id":4070,"date":"2022-07-19T20:36:01","date_gmt":"2022-07-19T20:36:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iddi.org\/?p=3571"},"modified":"2022-07-19T20:36:01","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T20:36:01","slug":"somos-duenos-de-nuestros-propios-destinos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iddi.org\/en\/somos-duenos-de-nuestros-propios-destinos\/","title":{"rendered":"SOMOS DUE\u00d1OS DE NUESTROS PROPIOS DESTINOS"},"content":{"rendered":"

En la medida que nuestras vidas se vayan poniendo mas dif\u00edciles y complicadas y que los cambios en el mundo se aceleren progresivamente imponiendo constantemente nuevas limitaciones y exigencias que parecen interminables y casi inalcanzables, es natural que nos sintamos bastante tensos, frustrados y, sin duda, un poco perdidos.\u00a0 Como resultado nos acostumbramos a culpar a todo lo que nos rodea por nuestros fracasos, inseguridades y falta de felicidad personal.\u00a0 Siempre decimos que la situaci\u00f3n econ\u00f3mica es la culpa de nuestros problemas, o es un problema familiar, o son los vecinos, o es la incomprensi\u00f3n de nuestro(a) jefe(a) en el trabajo,\u00a0 cualquier cosa menos nosotros mismos.<\/span><\/p>\n

The problem with this view lies in the fact that we believe the causes of our frustrations always reside in the world external to us, when precisely the opposite is true. Consequently, it is easy to blame others for our situation without understanding that the only possible remedies exist within each of us. As a first step towards personal balance, it is necessary to recognize that the key to our happiness exists in understanding that although we cannot change the reality around us, we are capable of transforming our internal reality and in the process modifying our perspective of the world. To achieve this, it would be necessary to understand and assimilate the following:<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. The key to personal transformation is definitely recognizing that you have the power to see all things as you wish.<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Somos lo que creemos.\u00a0 Nuestro sistema de creencias est\u00e1 basado en las experiencias del pasado que es constantemente s\u00faper impuesto en el presente con la anticipaci\u00f3n de que ocurra en el futuro.\u00a0 Nuestras percepciones del presente son tan dominadas por el pasado que es casi imposible ver las cosas sin distorsiones y sin limitaciones.\u00a0 Con la voluntad, nosotros podemos re-examinar quienes creemos que somos y lograr una comprensi\u00f3n nueva y mas profunda de nuestra identidad personal y de la identidad de los dem\u00e1s.<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Experiencing this will allow us a sense of total freedom. Being free allows us to live without any fear or limitations that prevent us from being what we want to be and who we are.<\/span><\/li>\n
  4. Siempre percibimos que los dem\u00e1s nos est\u00e1n atacando cuando en realidad ellos est\u00e1n actuando desde una posici\u00f3n defensiva o de ignorancia.\u00a0 El que ataca es porque tiene miedo, siente que lo est\u00e1n amenazando o porque posee un sentido de culpabilidad que tiene un solo resultado y ese es el conflicto, no solamente con nosotros mismos sino tambi\u00e9n con los dem\u00e1s.<\/span><\/li>\n
  5. To experience peace instead of conflict, we must modify our perceptions. Instead of seeing people as attacking us, we need to understand their situation of ignorance or fear, even if they themselves are not aware of this condition. The only way to face them is with love, showing them that there is no need to fear us, nor life itself.<\/span><\/li>\n
  6. Cuando las personas no act\u00faan de acuerdo a nuestras expectativas, las criticamos reforzando as\u00ed nuestras propias creencias incorrectas.\u00a0 La paz personal no se obtiene mediante el empe\u00f1o de cambiar a los dem\u00e1s sino de cambiar nuestras percepciones de ellos y de aceptarlos como son sin juzgarlos.<\/span><\/li>\n
  7. La paz interna solamente se consigue cuando uno puede perdonar a los dem\u00e1s.\u00a0 El perd\u00f3n no es una manifestaci\u00f3n de poder sobre el otro sino es el reconocimiento de lo que tu cre\u00edste que tu hemano\/a te hizo nunca ocurri\u00f3.\u00a0 Es el mecanismo que podemos utilizar para modificar nuestras percepciones incorrectas de los dem\u00e1s.<\/span><\/li>\n
  8. Our mistaken perceptions can be corrected right now through detaching from what we believe others have done to us. This process allows us to free ourselves from our past and be free to act without limitations in the present. This is how we break the eternal cycle of guilt and fear that constantly distorts our reality.<\/span><\/li>\n
  9. La esencia del amor es de poder dar de \u00e9l sin limitaciones.\u00a0 Solamente a trav\u00e9s de esto podremos experimentar el milagro incondicional del amor y de la bondad.\u00a0 Esto se logra mediante la comprensi\u00f3n de como el amor no tiene limites, se puede dar de el sin tener miedo de que este se nos acabe.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    En conclusi\u00f3n, yo soy responsable por todo lo que percibo y lo que yo percibo se convierte en mi realidad diaria.\u00a0 Yo escojo los sentimientos y pensamientos que quiero y la meta que deseo lograr.\u00a0 Todo lo que me pasa es porque as\u00ed lo determino, y yo recibo proporcionalmente a la voluntad que yo invierto.<\/span><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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